Friend could be either a male or a female.. so i am just removing she or he references and naming the person as Z.. no gender biasing.
Z is definitely not my brother/sister nor my boyfriend/girlfriend; Friend, close to heart. When i needed Z's help, Z was always there. Whenever i want to say some secret, Z could be helpful. This Z is so good, that i will ask Z to be in my dowry kit :) ..hey Z no offense please. I believe everyone should have one like Z. How am i gonna repay all these?.. Well, the fact is Z is not expecting me to repay all this in the same way as Z did to me, but i believe Z will expect me to help Z whenever i could.
This is a recent observation that i made in my life. I have two friends say 0 and 1. They were/are really close friends (u wud know why i made it "were/are" in the sentence after u read d post). 0 met with a tragedy in its life and wanted 1 to help it to get through ( emotional support) 0 always asked rest of its friends to ask 1 to come and meet 0. But 1 acted as though it dint know 0 as closely as it did. 1 dint come to support 0 as much as 0 expected..... my observation could be incomplete, but i m judgmental here from this observation. 1 could hav atleast acted a bit more concerned about 0. that's my view. But it stirs me up, as i ( i would say a more distant friend) had to push 1 to see 0. If i were 0, definitely i would have given a punch on 1's nose and then requested 1 to be a better friend ( though i would never let 1 go away from my friends circle)
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Hey, i'd not settle with just a pinch in the nose for 1, i'd rather give a kick in the stomach. As for Z, i'd say u shouldn't ditch him/her as long as u can! Till something serious parts u two!
I think u must subscribe to one of my theories- "dont worry abt things over which u dont have any control ".
Do all the things that u can do to make a difference in people- love,plead,beg,irritate,blackmail.... whatever...
If they r in no mood to understand..Fine ..Its their prob..
Not urs..U did all what u can..
All the 1s will understand it when they face a similar situation...
Keep cool.......
Dont lose faith in friendship..
Thats the thing which keeps my life going....
Good post someone.. :) Czz.. i dont know whho this is.. :) The first thing i wanna tell yu is never lose faith in friendship.. :)They mite cheat u.. backstab u.. but.. :) i guess u need to behave in teh same way.. i know its very easy to say.. but quite diff to practise.. The worstthing abt friendship is it starts to break when u start expecting.. :)
oru doubt...s dehav yu seen any one lik 'z' , 1&0 in ur lif????
gr8 concept...a bit tough to be practical...
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